about me and how to get in touch ...
I'm a soul seer, relational intuitive, and a world-class leadership coach.
I'm also a pragmatic visionary who believes I AM here on the planet at this time to radiate my gifts and talents to usher in a new era of individual and collective consciousness that welcomes LOVE without fear.
I believe in creating connection at the speed of trust. With ease. And joy.
I believe our hearts and bodies can be agile in relationship. Fluid. In flow.
I believe world peace starts at home. Smack-dab in the bedroom.
After three decades in the field of human development, rocketing my way to leadership positions in Fortune 100's, global non-profits, and top-tier higher education, I had an epiphany:
Period. More than anything else in our lives. And although I could crank at work, by 2005 my personal life was in acute crisis. I denied the glaring issues and got on with business as usual. Then, on July 23, 2007, I experienced a dramatic personal awakening that demanded my absolute attention and energy. No escaping the truth this time. To move through the healing and growth catalyzed by this life-altering event, I embarked on an all-out quest into the emerging frontier of human relating.
In 2011, I received the guidance to craft, then launch, a simple trauma-informed curriculum to teach others how to open their hearts and embody their erotic truth. Born of my own excruciating heartache and deep longing to transcend the chronic fear and violence that I experienced within my closest relationships, the INTRO TO SOUL SEX™ workshop grew through the generosity of yoga studios that welcomed my humble offering and loving intent to enrich their community.
Much to my surprise, every event sold out from LA to Vancouver between 2012 and 2014. After witnessing profound transformation in the lives of participants, I chose to pause my itinerant teaching to embed myself in a community committed to reviving radical trust and practicing relationship fluidity.
During 2015 and 2016, my identity of self shifted from being solely internally sourced or what we consider "independent" — the jet fuel of the self-help industry — to experiencing my sense of worthiness and belonging as a human being reflected back to me through a matrix of trust-based relationships, becoming "intra-dependent".
Intra-dependent people are fully sovereign, yet choose to depend on many others to enjoy the synergy of the whole. Intra-dependence is what makes a village, a village.
And if it takes a village to raise a child, it also takes a village to sustain healthy adults.
Simply put, intra-dependent people expand their capacity to live rich, interconnected lives filled with altruistic love, co-creative energy and beautiful collective experiences. The spillover is gratitude and generosity, evidenced in the form of robust relationships and cutting-edge social innovation. Out of cultivating heart-based abundance, we naturally give back to enrich society. And honour all life on the planet.
But it's not all unicorns and rainbows. That same capacity allows us to feel and accept the full gamut of human emotions, including grief, pain and heartbreak. The ones we'd rather shun yet contribute to our developing wholeheartedness and authenticity. (Cue Brené Brown and The Power of Vulnerability.)
Waking up is the ultimate invitation to be fully alive — turned on and lit up.
With courage, patience and faith, I express my unconditional "yes" to that invitation daily. I ardently practice what I preach, stretch myself at my growth edge and — most importantly — do the work to fully integrate a wide variety of relational experiences.
Why? So I can be the change I wish to see in the world.
That means, I am now distilling this wisdom to share with others who desire to rethink, redefine and radically evolve their relationships in a conscious, heart-centered and embodied way. A teacher at heart, my deepest desire is to offer my hard-won lessons and guidance via my forthcoming book, The Soul Sex Path: A Grassroots Way to Redeem Our Intimate Lives from the Culture of Violence and Reclaim Our Birthright to Love Without Fear.
Having received dreams and visions to liberate LOVE into our incarnate experience since the age of four, I joyfully devote my heart and energy to those who seek mastery in relating and yearn to build a new story of human connection that works for all, founded on unconditional love, respect and compassion.
PLEASE NOTE: I'm on writing sabbatical for most of 2017. In lieu of public events I am engaging in podcast/radio interviews plus offering relationship coaching for men here.
"Jenny Ferry is on the pulse of it! It meaning cutting-edge global-changing ideas. She has the intellectual brilliance like very few. Rarely, have I met a human being who keeps me on my toes, on the edge of my seat with enthusiasm, awe and passion."
Diane Israel, Trustee, Naropa University Boulder, CO
"Revolutionary and paradigm shifting. Jenny has a gift of both directly and gently inviting people to look at their assumptions and understanding of sex. She offers a refreshing perspective on owning our sex in a way that's nourishing."
Kelly LaValley, San Francisco, CA
"Jenny is following her passion in service to rediscovering, realizing and bringing forth the sacred masculine and feminine in the lives of her clients. Her work cuts to the core of sexual dynamics... She has a powerful gift to share."
Don Goodeve, Ph.D., Victoria, BC, Canada
"She's a powerhouse of feminine wow who walks her talk!"
Mikki Baloy, New York, NY
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